Thursday, January 10, 2013

An unexpected journey

We are going to adopt!

As some of you may or may not know, Jonathan and I have been trying to have a baby for the past 2 years.  It has been a struggle to get through month after month of disappointment.  After going to the doctor and doing various tests and procedures to make sure everything is working correctly we found that there is nothing wrong with me.  Given the chance to do further infertility treatments we decided that based on our very pro-life stance that they were not for us.  We feel that we are following God's path and living our life according to His will.  And we are confident that He will reward us with a family.

And we feel that our family is meant to grow through adoption.  I feel so confident and content in this decision.  I feel I have mourned the loss of that time when you're pregnant, giving birth and then having that one-on-one time with your newborn.  But I will gain an experience that many people will never have.  Going through the adoption process will most definitely be stressful, long and heartbreaking at times, but it will also be extremely rewarding.  I wanted to record our experience to be able to look back on it and possibly help others who are considering or pursuing adoption.  Please feel free to comment with any questions and I'll answer to the best of my ability.

We are currently in the process of submitting our formal application to Bethany Christian Services for an infant domestic adoption.  We are also in the process of applying for our adoption loan, which currently has me stressed out!  I'll write more soon about the specifics of this, so be sure to check back on our progress.

We're excited to share our journey with you!

Love,
Jonathan & Katie

2 comments:

  1. SO excited for the addition to your family. For real... words are not a good tool for communicating the excitement. There is some little person out there who will soon be blessed with an amazing set of parents. Ahhhh!!!

    Supporting and sending love from the North,
    Julie

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  2. love you guys. love this. and already love the babe who will be so blessed to be held in your arms. the way you love our family, especially ellery, just shows what amazing parents you will be. praying for you always!!

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